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Oklahoma Family Law Blog 

Oklahoma family law issues including adoption, marriage, divorce, legal separation, cohabitation, child support, child custody, visitation, alimony, spousal maintenance, father's rights and grandparents' visitation rights.
Post Frequency: 1.6/day Last Entry: January 28, 2009 at 02:00:44 Recent Entries: 120
By Dan Nunley, Esq.
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Famous Lawyer Says The Billable Hour System Must Die
Posted on April 16, 2008Attorney and best-selling author Scott Turow says in a recently-published article in the ABA Journal that the billable hour system is not merely bad for the lives of lawyers but is worse for clients, bad for the attorney-client relationship, and...
Famous Lawyer Says The Billable Hour System Must Die
Posted on April 16, 2008Attorney and best-selling author Scott Turow says in a recently-published article in the ABA Journal that the billable hour system is not merely bad for the lives of lawyers but is worse for clients, bad for the attorney-client relationship, and bad for the image of our profession...
Billing By The Hour Seen As Corrupting To The Legal Profession
Posted on April 14, 2008I have posted previously (here, here, here, here, and here) on the benefits of a flat or fixed fee billing system. Here is an article written by the President of the California Bar Association in which he says that the...
Your Questions and Comments
Posted on April 11, 2008First of all I want to say how much I appreciate you the reader of the Oklahoma Family Law Blog. I hope that you find the information interesting and educational. If you aren't yet a subscriber, consider becoming one today....
Women With Graduate Degrees Are More Likely to Divorce
Posted on April 09, 2008A soon to be published study of more than 100,000 professionals reveals that women with MBAs, law degrees, and medical degrees are twice as likely to get divorced or separated as their male counterparts. The study also found that highly...
More Men Are Receiving Alimony From Ex-Wives
Posted on April 07, 2008Is it unmanly to receive alimony from your ex-wife? While I don't have any male clients who receive temporary support or alimony, apparently this is a growing trend as more and more women move up the career ladder and earn...
More Men Are Receiving Alimony From Ex-Wives
Posted on April 07, 2008Is it unmanly to receive alimony from your ex-wife? While I don't have any male clients who receive temporary support or alimony, apparently this is a growing trend as more and more women move up the career ladder and earn...
Judge Vacates Divorce So Ex-Wife Can Become Widow
Posted on March 28, 2008Last month an airman stationed at Tinker Air Force Base shot and killed his nine-year-old daughter and four-year-old son before turning the gun on himself. This tragedy occurred just eleven days after the airman and his wife were granted a...
Judge Vacates Divorce So Ex-Wife Can Become Widow
Posted on March 27, 2008Last month an airman stationed at Tinker Air Force Base shot and killed his nine-year-old daughter and four-year-old son before turning the gun on himself. This tragedy occurred just eleven days after the airman and his wife were granted a...
Oklahoma and California Are At Opposite Ends Of The Homeschooling Spectrum
Posted on March 09, 2008Oklahoma is the friendliest state to home schooling parents because Oklahoma is the only state that has a constitutional provision guaranteeing parents the right to educate their children at home. Because of that, Oklahoma may see an influx of home...
DivorceCare Program Begins At Broken Arrow Church
Posted on February 28, 2008DivorceCare is a Christ-centered, 13-week program offered across the nation as a support group for people who are divorced, going through a divorce, or separated. The Assembly at Broken Arrow just started a new DivorceCare class last night at its downtown campus located at 200 E...
DHS Employee Fails To Report Sexual Abuse
Posted on February 23, 2008Here is a appalling example of a state agency found to be contributing to the abuse and neglect of the very children it has been charged to protect. And to add to the outrage, research reveals that this is just one of many examples of DHS' failings. Last week, a DHS case worker was charged with a misdemeanor count of failing to report child abuse...
New Judges in Tulsa County Divorce Court
Posted on February 22, 2008If either the Honorable Mark Barcus or the Honorable Terry Bitting has been the judge in your Tulsa County family law case, get ready for a change. Both judges are "Special District Judges" who have no specific term of office as they are hired by and serve at the pleasure of the elected district and associate district judges...
When A Divorced Couple Changes Their Minds
Posted on February 19, 2008Every now and then, I receive a call or email from someone who tells me that he/she and their ex have reconciled and want to be married again. In Oklahoma, there are three ways for a divorced couple to become remarried. 1. The couple may remarry by obtaining a marriage license and having a civil wedding ceremony...
Oklahoma Family Law Blog Moves to New Site
Posted on February 18, 2008This will be the final post on this site as the Oklahoma Family Law Blog is moving. Click on this link and you will taken to the new site. Subscribers should update their RSS feed to continue to receive the latest posts concerning Oklahoma family law issues.
10 Things Not To Do In Your Divorce Case
Posted on February 06, 2008Divorce is not easy. There are many pitfalls and traps awaiting parties that have not educated themselves about the process. People often make bad decisions under stress, or without the guidance of an experienced lawyer. Don?t be one of them. Divorce law isn?t rocket science, but it isn?t always intuitive...
Parents Have Constitutional Right to Cross-Examine Guardian Ad Litem
Posted on January 30, 2008In a recent case, a father sought to cross-examine a guardian ad litem regarding her custody recommendation. The guardian ad litem argued that she could not be called as a witness in the custody litigation based on an Oklahoma statute (43 O.S. 107.3 (A)(2)(e)) that states that a guardian ad litem "is not subject to discovery under the Oklahoma Discovery Code...
When Visitation Rights Are Denied
Posted on January 28, 2008I am receiving an ever-increasing number of telephone calls and emails from non-custodial parents concerning their visitation rights being either out-right denied or at least negatively impacted by the primary custodial parent's willful actions. In my opinion, the primary custodial parent has an obligation to comply with the court's orders regarding visitation and should do everything in his/her power to not cause trouble...
Watch Out For Dirty Divorce Tricks
Posted on December 18, 2007Divorce is an extremely emotional event for both husband and wife, regardless of whether the spouse normally wears his emotions on his sleeve or hides his true feelings. Highly charged emotions are the norm and many spouses begin to act in ways that show their dark side...
No More Hourly Billing For Me
Posted on December 17, 2007Like many family law attorneys, my practice has been to charge my clients a flat fee for uncontested matters and an hourly fee for contested matters. Recently, I have given much thought to representing all clients for a flat fee, even in contested matters...
Another Vote for Flat Fees in Contested Divorces
Posted on December 13, 2007Here's what Kansas family law attorney Grant Griffiths had to say about yesterday's post. "I could not agree more. I have been doing flat fee cases in my family law practice for at least 3 years now. It really does work better for both the client and attorney...
Still More on Flat Fees in Contested Divorces
Posted on December 12, 2007This week I have been posting regarding my opinion as to the benefits of attorneys charging a flat fee instead of billing by the hour in contested divorce cases. Today I would like to share what South Carolina family law attorney Ben Stevens has to say about the issue: The American Bar Association released a report just over five years ago that was very critical of the ?standard? way that many (if not most) attorneys charge their clients for their services...
More on Flat Fees in Contested Divorces
Posted on December 11, 2007Yesterday, I posted on the issue of flat fees versus hourly fees in contested divorce cases. For the remainder of the week, I will share with you what several other family law attorneys believe about flat fees in contested divorce matters. First up is Alabama divorce lawyer Michael Sherman who says: "I would not hire a lawyer that is not willing to represent you in a divorce on a fixed fee...
Benefits of Flat Fees in Contested Divorces
Posted on December 10, 2007While many attorneys offer flat fees for uncontested divorces, very few are willing to represent a client in a contested divorce for a flat fee. Why is that when there certainly are benefits to both the lawyer and the client from a flat fee arrangement? I feel safe in saying that the vast majority of clients would prefer to pay a flat fee rather than an hourly fee, simply for the benefit of knowing exactly how much they will be paying out of pocket for divorce representation...
Is Divorce Ever Good?
Posted on December 06, 2007Is divorce ever good? If not, can it sometimes be the lesser of two evils? Here is a thought-provoking article that considers bad marriages and divorce from a theological perspective. Source: Parchment & Pen Blog.
How Divorce Affects Income Tax Filing Status
Posted on December 05, 2007Your marital status on the last day of the tax year determines your income tax filing status for that tax year. If you have a final decree of divorce as of December 31, you can file as single, or you may qualify for head of household status. However, if your divorce is not yet final as of December 31, you can file jointly or married filing separately...
Unmarried Mothers Have Sole Legal Custody
Posted on November 30, 2007Recently, I have received numerous questions regarding the issue of what rights does an unmarried mother or an unmarried father have concerning their newborn baby. In Oklahoma, if a mother and father were not married to each other when their child was born and have not married each other since, and a court has not issued an order regarding custody of or visitation with the child, then the unmarried mother automatically has legal custody of the child without having to go to court...
State Courts Closed For Oklahoma's Centennial
Posted on November 15, 2007Just a reminder that Oklahoma courts and government offices will be closed Friday, November 16, 2007 in celebration of Oklahoma's 100th birthday.
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He is a very smart man who is always looking for ways around things. The judge granted our divorce for December 12,2007, and my ex-husband told me that he just got married just before Thanksgiving. He is a student at Cal
i can answer that for you. with all due respect. better your own life just as i ...
Haw can I join with my family who live in the USA?
Only you are allowed to can join your sister....
How to collect a personal loan from a spouse?
You local court will probably have someone to offer you some assistance as you p...
My husband's Grandmother died intestate. She had one sole heir, my husband's Father. He and his wife kept paying taxes on the property.Then he also died intestate. Now, my Mother-in-law wants to sell this property. Accor
Based on my research, his wife would have a 1/3 interest in the property. The ot...
I have been disabled for over 25 years. Last Nov. I had endoscopic brain surgery. It was not successful and had to be followed up by a major craniotomy. My huaband and I had not been contemplating divorce but after the 2
You need a Mass. divorce lawyer. If you can't afford one, Massachusetts leg...

He is a very smart man who is always looking for ways around things. The judge granted our divorce for December 12,2007, and my ex-husband told me that he just got married just before Thanksgiving. He is a student at Cal
i can answer that for you. with all due respect. better your own life just as i ...
Haw can I join with my family who live in the USA?
Only you are allowed to can join your sister....
How to collect a personal loan from a spouse?
You local court will probably have someone to offer you some assistance as you p...
My husband's Grandmother died intestate. She had one sole heir, my husband's Father. He and his wife kept paying taxes on the property.Then he also died intestate. Now, my Mother-in-law wants to sell this property. Accor
Based on my research, his wife would have a 1/3 interest in the property. The ot...
I have been disabled for over 25 years. Last Nov. I had endoscopic brain surgery. It was not successful and had to be followed up by a major craniotomy. My huaband and I had not been contemplating divorce but after the 2
You need a Mass. divorce lawyer. If you can't afford one, Massachusetts leg...








