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: Settle It Now Negotiation BlogWomen's Attitudes, Skills and Fears about Negotiation
By Victoria Pynchon
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NEGOTIATION COMPETENCIES
I do not like negotiating over price |
8.4
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It's easier for me to negotiate for other people
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8.1 |
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I negotiate for myself at least once a week.
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8 |
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I negotiate for my family/friends at least once a week. |
6.3 |
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Before negotiating a purchase, I do research |
5.7
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Before I negotiate, I know my "bottom line"
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4.7 |
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Before negotiating I plan my arguments to support my offers/counters.
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4.7 |
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Before negotiating, I prioritize my needs, desires, concessions, etc.
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5.3 |
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Before negotiating salary, I do research |
6.1
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Before negotiating salary, I know my "bottom line"
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4.9 |
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Before negotiating salary, I make a list of non-monetary items to exchange
DIFFICULTY IN VALUING ONE'S OWN WORK
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3.8
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It is difficult for me to say "no." |
5.5
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I am afraid I under value myself. |
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I am afraid I over value myself. |
4.8
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I believe I fairly value myself.
FEARS ABOUT NEGOTIATION |
5.4
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I am afraid that if I ask too much I'll be harshly judged |
7.7
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I am afraid of making offers that others might reject.
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8.1
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I am afraid that others will consider me pushy or too aggressive if I negotiate price
DIFFICULTIES NEGOTIATING
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7.3
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It is difficult for me to make an aggressive first offer.
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8.3
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It is difficult for me to make a counter-offer. |
8.2
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It is difficult for me to talk about my own value.
NEGOTIATION PREFERENCES |
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I do not enjoy selling. |
8.6
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I do not enjoy being sold. |
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I am more interested in everyone getting a fair deal rather than the best deal for me.
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7.6
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I believe competitive bargaining is necessary to get best deal.
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4.3
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I do not like competitive bargaining. |
8.7
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I prefer cooperative negotiations to competitive ones. |
9.2
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I prefer negotiations that make my bargaining partner as happy as me.
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9.4 |
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I prefer negotiations that end with a deal that gives me a better bargain than my bargaining partner.
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3.6 |
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I do care if my bargaining partner is happy with deal.
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I do not know what to do at impasse. |
7.8
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I enjoy brainstorming solutions to problems with others.
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8.9
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I consider my bargaining partner a mutual problem solver.
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I am afraid of offending my bargaining partner |
7.9
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Relationship is more important to me than money. |
8.2
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I give up good deals to preserve relationships.
ATTITUDES TOWARD WOMEN AND SELF CONCEPTION AS A WOMAN
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7.8
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I don't like aggressive women. |
5.1
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I consider myself to be an aggressive woman. |
4.5
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I consider myself to be an assertive woman. |
7.7 |
Full post as published by Settle It Now Negotiation Blog on June 11, 2010 (boomark / email).
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