My friend Jane, an arborist and landscape designer, recently voiced a still-too-common refrain about getting a fair share of the horticultural pie: 'I wish I could show up in drag.'

Jane, like her male counterparts, has a big truck with her company logo plastered on the doors, lots of specialized tools and ladders, a crew of talented helpers, 20 years in the business and several pairs of Carhartt jeans and Timberland boots (NYSE:TBL).

When she shows up to meet potential clients, she dresses like a woman and makes sure there's no dirt under her fingernails. It's a 'presentation' thing she says. According to Jane, if she clomps into prospective clients' gardens wearing muck boots, it's as much of a turn-off to her prospective clients as it is being gay.

Double binds and deep and abiding biases cause many women to make extreme choices.

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What is the SAT's ‘Jersey Shore' Essay Question Really Asking? posted by KATIE PHILLIPS

Last Saturday, the College Board served up a mega-curveball for high school students across America: it asked them to write an essay about reality television. The question, one out of three possible essay topics distributed at random, described reality television as programs 'which feature real people engaged in real activities rather than professional actors performing scripted scenes' and then asked whether 'people benefit from forms of entertainment that show so-called reality, or are such forms of entertainment harmful?'

Definitely not what kids who have spent countless hours brushing up on their Shakespeare, Chaucer, and Dickens had expected.

These are the kids that are too busy studying, playing soccer, or taking piano lessons in the hopes of receiving an acceptance letter to a great college — they don't have the time to watch or interest in the comings-and-goings of Jersey Shore's Snooki and The Situation. These are, not surprisingly, the same kids who are complaining of the question's ‘unfairness' – many of whom have lamented on online forums such asCollege Confidential that they don't watch any television, let alone reality shows.

The College Board, in response, has defended its prompt; saying that it was an attempt to 'engage students', and that 'everything a student needs to write a successful essay is included in the prompt itself.' Meaning, they're not grading students on how well they can opine about the Kardashians, but rather how well they can structure an essay.

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Money, Power, and Self-Determination Make Women Unhappy posted by VICTORIA PYNCHON

Over at Washington Whispers, Paul Bedard has pulled from Venker's book, Five Ways That Feminism Has Ruined America

It hurt marriage. Women want to wait so that they can keep their identities longer and men are finding easy sex, taking away a big reason for marriage.

 Emasculates men. It's better to be a wuss than speak up or mouth off and face charges of harassment or chauvinism.

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The Internet, Freedom of Speech and the Anti-Gay App posted by VICTORIA PYNCHON

Pressure is mounting on Apple(NASDAQ:AAPL) to rid its store of an Anti-Gay App. Over at the Huffington Post, Wayne Bessen writes that Exodus International, the largest Christian organization offering a 'cure' for homosexuality, is bragging that Apple gave it a 4+ rating, signifying the absence of 'offensive content.'

I downloaded the Exodus App today to see whether it contained something akin to hate speech which has beenvariously defined as any communication which disparages a person or a group on the basis of some characteristic such as race or sexual orientation; or attacks or disparages a person or group of people based on their social or ethnic group.

At the risk of putting myself at the center of a firestorm of disapproval, I have to say that what I viewed and read on the Exodus app was not hate speech but simply the expression of religious beliefs with which I, and many other people, disagree.

Exodus International appears to be a non-denominational religious organization that believes homosexuality is a sin. It also promotes the idea that this sin can be relieved by establishing a spiritual relationship with Jesus.

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