Legal Marketing & PR

Got an unsolicited email about negativity in speech. Don't normally read my junk mail, but SO glad this item escaped my ruthless delete stroke so that I could share the gem with you:

Negative Vocabulary: Say what you will do, not what you can't do.

This Marketing Tip of the Week was provided by Ann Nobbs of Telmark Training who concentrates on working with people to improving telemarketing results.

With her negative example of "I'm sorry but..." ... the simple change to "I'm sorry and..." makes all the difference in the world.

This "and/but" thing is VERY helpful, too, if you are disagreeing with a colleague -- especially in a meeting where you don't want to come across as a jerk. After someone says something you wish to counter, or add a differing opinion on, try, "I hear what John is saying AND I'd like to add..." as opposed to "John thinks that BUT I..." 

This simple change is far more respectful and far less confrontational.

The word "but" should pretty much be removed from any customer relations conversation. It will only get you in trouble.