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WHAT TO TELL YOUR CUSTODY LAWYER

By Fox Rothschild

There is nothing worse than being in a legal battle regarding who gets to see and care for your child(ren). Usually the battle is with the other parent, but sometimes it is with a grandparent or other family member, or a local child welfare agency. No matter who is involved, this case will make you scared, angry and sometimes feeling completely out of control. Your custody lawyer can help you only if he knows all there is to know about you, your children and the other people involved in the case. You can help him help you by giving him the following information:

Key people. The contact information for

                Child’s doctor, dentist and other medical providers

                Child’ teacher this year and past year(s)

                Child’s principal and school counselor

                Caregivers, i.e. babysitters, child care teachers

                All people living/frequently staying at any place child stays

                Concerned neighbors

                Child’s friends/ friends’ parents

                Supportive family members

Schedules

                When child is with you

                When child is with other parent

                When child is with other caregivers

                Telephone logs/calls to other parent

                School

                Camp

                Child care

                Doctor/dentist visits

Documents

                Medical records (3 years)

                School records (3 years)

                Calendar of all visits/calls you have with child

                E-mails, letters to and from other adults regarding custody, well-being of child

Litigation

Information and documents regarding this case and any other custody, divorce or abuse action involving you and/or the other people in this custody case.

 

In preparing for a custody case it is important that you keep a written record of all visits/communications you have with or about your child and with the other parent or party. Your lawyer and/or your doctor may recommend hiring a child psychologist to do one of the following:

                Treat you

                Treat your child

                Perform a custody evaluation

                Assist you and the other parent in learning how to co-parent

                Teach you about your child’s development and needs at all stages of the child’s growth.

 

The process is long and daunting. With effective communication between you and your lawyer and with focus on what is best for your child, you may be able to resolve the matter at hand.

Full post as published by Pennsylvania Family Law on November 03, 2008 (boomark / email).