Family Law

Protect Your Finances Before You Divorce

By Ben Stevens

Going through a divorce can be one of the most significant financial events that you will experience in your life.  Not only is a divorce the breakup of an interpersonal relationship, it is also the end of a financial relationship.  The excellent financial information blog Ask The Advisor published an article which takes a close look at the impact of divorce on credit, specifically with regard to your finances and your credit history.

As soon as you decide to separate from your spouse, you should begin to take steps to protect your credit, including the following:

• Assess Your Responsibilities :: You need to be aware of all the accounts you are responsible for, including bank accounts, mortgage loans, credit cards and utilities. Even if you and your spouse have decided who gets what property, you need to make sure that the right person is solely responsible for their respective belongings.
• Dissolve All Joint Accounts :: Rather than trying to divvy up what is owed on your joint accounts and asking your ex to honor their half, you should remove the right person's name from the accounts or cancel them completely. Make sure the both of you do the canceling together, legally. The first place to start is the bank, as most couples share checking and/or savings accounts when they are married. Also, if you are taking possession of one car with both of your names on the note, have your spouse's name removed. Make sure that your spouse does the same thing with any property they take. (If you are still paying for any of this property, then you may have to refinance to get the loan down to one name.) Any bills you paid together, such as your utilities, should be put in one name. As for credit cards, you can try to work with the credit card company and have them transfer half of the balance to two different accounts in anticipation of the divorce.
• Sell the House :: A common mistake that people make is giving their house to their spouse after the divorce. This may be due to abandonment or perhaps a well-intentioned arrangement because there are children involved. However, the best thing to do is to sell the house together and divide the profit. After all, no one can predict the future. Countless divorcees have found their credit ruined because their ex let their house go into foreclosure. Explaining to creditors that you are now divorced won't make you any less responsible for a mortgage with your name on it.
• Divide Any and All Shared Cash :: In the process of allocating debt, canceling accounts and selling property, you and your spouse will probably be left with some liquid assets. You should, perhaps with the assistance of your divorce lawyers, fairly divide that cash before you walk out of each other's lives. This is the legal, sensible and ethical thing to do.
• Document Everything :: Once the courts become involved and your divorce is finally underway, make sure that all of your financial arrangements and agreements are documented. That way, if there are any discrepancies down the road (such as a creditor bugging you about your ex's car payments), you can refer anyone to your official court records. While this may not be a surefire way to get a collector off of your back in a timely manner, you will have the law on your side and the means to protect or restore your credit.

Full post as published by SC Family Law Blog on August 05, 2008 (boomark / email).