Family Law

Guest Post :: Signs That Your Spouse is Unfaithful

By J. Benjamin Stevens

Detecting infidelity from your partner will never be easy. I suggest that if you really want to catch your cheating partner, be sure to yourself that you're ready, not only financially, emotionally but also mentally.

Signs of a Cheating Partner

I'm sure if you're reading this article, you have suspicions about your partner's faithfulness but you just don't know how to start and where to start investigating. But by reading this article you will confidently know if your suspicions are just suspicions or concrete facts.

This is where you'll start everything. First, you must know the signs of a cheater. Remember this, there is no such thing as a 'Perfect Crime'. All clues are everywhere, just open your eyes. These are some signs that you may encounter if your partner is really a cheater.

First, if he/she is over protective to his/her cell phone. Every time you ask for her/his phone, hesitation comes out of his/her action. No partner will hesitate to lend you his/her phone if he/she doesn't hiding anything on that cute tiny gadget. Maybe that cell phone is not so cute at all. Once In a while late at night text messages? it maybe from a friend. But an every late at night text messages? That's a big nasty can of suspicions.

Second to our list is mood swing, not just a normal mood swing but an 'extreme' mood swing. Every time she/he goes home and you felt that she/he is being cold to you? That's another sign. And he/she may also do this extreme mood swing in opposite way, by being so sweet and so warm like feeding you with love like pig that he/she doesn't usually do. Think about it, he/she is not being real. People usually hide something under that cloak of positivity.

Third is unfamiliar smell of perfume and object in your partner's clothes. This is very critical, I'm sure everyone knows the smell of their own perfumes. When you smell it, you can sense the familiarity. But this sign can be easily answered by a simple lie. He/she can say that he/she just went to his/her relative's house. It's not the point. Take a look at your partner's clothes with those detective's eyes. Look for a make-up or anything that is unusual.

Next is asking him/her to go out. It's normal for a cheating partner to refuse going out. Because most of the people who cheat never confess to the one they're seeing that they're on a relationship or married. That's the main reason why they say NO.

Then, the sexual part of a relationship (for married partners only). If you experience to be ignored by your spouse whenever you ask him/her to have a sexual intercourse? I think there's a problem. She/he maybe just tired, but honestly, for God sake! Sex with love never fails.

Second to the last will be the suspicious receipts. Receipt from an expensive brand of perfume, receipt from a popular jewelry store or even a receipt from a supermarket that you never experienced or received. That's a very noticeable clue of infidelity.

And the last sign is his/her avoiding friends. They are the walking vault of secrets for your partner. They are the one who cleans up the mess, who hides the dirt in their pocket of crimes. If they are avoiding you as if you're a cop and they're the wanted criminals? Think twice, maybe you smells like shit or maybe they know what you'll ask them.

Now I've given you the signs, you're the one who will look for these things. And reflect with yourself, would I still pursue this? If you still want to know the truth, continue reading, but if you think you had enough of it, just close this tab and go to social networking sites to play some flash games and just let the secret be a secret forever.

Source: Jay Dawber, is an ordinary guy who is a father of two and a good husband to his wife. But besides of being a good dad, he wants to prove his suspicions that his wife is cheating on him. He seen all the signs but can't do anything to catch her in action. He tried everything but always ended up failing. And after some frustrations and dull moment, he discovered a very simple method to find out if his wife is cheating. And he wants to share it to every men, having this scenario in the present.

Full post as published by SC Family Law Blog on February 28, 2011 (boomark / email).