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Is your partner helping you with your "self-expansion"?

It's the secret to a happy marriage, according to some experts:

While the notion of self-expansion may sound inherently self-serving, it can lead to stronger, more sustainable relationships, [says Professor Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.,].

?If you?re seeking self-growth and obtain it from your partner, then that puts your partner in a pretty important position,? he explains. ?And being able to help your partner?s self-expansion would be pretty pleasing to yourself.?

The concept explains why people are delighted when dates treat them to new experiences, like a weekend away. But self-expansion isn?t just about exotic experiences. Individuals experience personal growth through their partners in big and small ways. It happens when they introduce new friends, or casually talk about a new restaurant or a fascinating story in the news.

Introducing you to a fascinating story in the news? The secret to happiness is, perhaps, marrying a blogger!

Full post as published by Althouse on January 01, 2011 (boomark / email).