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: California Divorce BlawgTop Reasons People Stay in a Marriage
By John E. Harding, JD, CFLS
While a large percentage of first marriages - and even more subsequent marriages - end in divorce, for many couples there are still very good reasons to stay in the marriage and make it work.
Emotional Security - When your spouse is your best friend and confidante, the relationship provides an emotional safety net. This can be important, especially for people who may be prone to depression. By being and having a sounding board, you and your spouse have the opportunity to safely vent frustrations or express sadness without fear of rejection, embarrassment or ridicule.
Financial Security - Married couples may have financial advantages over divorced or single people. Certainly two incomes supporting a household are better than one, and it may be easier for married couples to obtain credit than single or divorced people.
Health Advantages - Some studies show being in a happy marriage can be good for your health. Additionally, married couples have the advantage of having a spouse to look after them if they become ill.
For the Children - In some marriages, staying together for the kids may not be the best decision; however, if parents can develop a strong relationship and set good examples, they have the opportunity to be role models for their children.
Other Reasons - There are many other reasons couples choose to make their marriages work. Some marriages may be successful for a variety of reasons such as a great sex life, shared interests and hobbies or a deep religious commitment. Divorce can be stressful, so those who recognize that they have a good thing going often strive to keep it.
Please click here for the original article at The Divorce Blog.
Please be sure to visit www.hardinglaw.com, the website for the law firm of Harding & Associates, for more information on California family law.
Full post as published by California Divorce Blawg on February 17, 2009 (boomark / email).
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